I Can't Drive 55

Well, it is official.  I can’t drive 55, or at least I can’t unless I have the help of my cruise control.  My reasons for not driving 55 are very much different from Sammy Hagar’s.   My husband has been hounding me, yes HOUNDING ME, to look into getting hand controls for my car.  I am having increased pain and weakness in my right foot.  I keep thinking it will get better, hoping, praying.  However, it has now been almost 9 months of very limited or no driving at all.  The day it really hit me that I needed to give into this request was an early Monday morning.  My husband was out of town, and it was up to me to get my daughter to her school that was 15 miles away.  I got into the car, started the engine, put it into reverse to back out of our garage.  I pressed the gas, nothing, tried again, still nothing.  My muscles just were not going to cooperate.  So I gave it some help by pressing down on my knee with my hand to force pressure on the gas.  Hmmmm, I don’t think this is safe anymore.  I dropped off my son on the way, and FINALLY, I was on the divided highway.  Aaahh, relief for my foot!   I could use the cruise control now.  With the constant pushing of “accel, accel, accel” on the cruise, I finally got the car up to the right cruising speed to finish getting us to our destination of her school.  By the time I got back home, I was in tears from the pain and the frustration.   I called my husband.  “I think it is time for the hand controls”.  Since then I have done little to no driving, and the loss of independence is disheartening.
 

The task of finding out how to go about getting hand controls has not been easy.  We finally found a facility that installs them, but not until I undergo a 4 hour assessment from an occupational therapist.  This therapist is about to go to therapy, a weird change of roles for me.  Early in my profession I too would assess head injured clients to see if they could be deemed safe to be drivers.  Now it is me in that “drivers ed” seat, being assessed for hand controls.  My evaluation is coming up this Friday.

One of the most difficult things has been to find out Georgia laws regarding evaluations and drivers training for such things. Do I need a doctor’s referral?  Will I be required to have a certain amount of hours of training?   We searched everywhere, and could only find laws on PARKING.  So in Georgia, I guess you can drive however you want, but you better be careful where you park when handicapped.  Go figure!  We found plenty of laws for other states, but none for Georgia.  We still are not clear about this. From what we understand, I will need to undergo the evaluation, and then it is determined if I will need further training from that point.  After the evaluation, I will then need a written prescription of what type controls I exactly need.  Then the appointment will be set up with the installers.  I have also called many times to see if a doctor’s prescription is needed with NO returned calls.  I will not be happy Friday, if I get there and they don’t have everything they need to proceed.  This whole process is not very clear cut, and very frustrating. 

 

I am not exactly jumping for joy with the thought of getting hand controls.  I want to fix me, not change the car.  I have said this hundreds of times.  However, for me to become more independent and drive safely once more, I know I need them.  Because without the use of the cruise or the dangerous use of my hand to apply pressure, I just can’t drive 55!

Thanks for reading.